Words of Wisdom: From a Man's Point of View!

From Guest Blogger: Jeff Watts

I sometimes browse pages on FB when I find some spare time – just to see what my friends are up to with their lives. I don’t even comment or click anything. I just browse…

One thing I’m seeing a lot of: people CHASING the concept of a relationship. It’s almost like an obsession to WANT to find someone …ANYONE, actually. And I’m not one to judge, because I’m more like the advisor of the panel. I’m sure that people judge – because it’s only human nature to do so, but I fight that judgment tendency and I offer my advice:

I love you, friends. But realize that the INTERNET is like a CAR LOT. If you walk on the car lot going, “…OMG! I need a car so bad! Please, someone bring a car!”, then SALESMEN will come out of the woodwork, preying on your desires…attempting to sell you whatever car they’ve been trying to push off the lot for the past two months. Getting rid of inventory to someone that apparently wants a car so badly, they’re willing to talk about it daily.

The same is true with the desire to have a mate. If your page says – on a daily basis – “I NEED SOMEONE. I WANT SOMEONE. Please, send me a mate/spouse!”, then the SALEMEN (let’s call them THAT for now) will come out of the woodwork, telling you everything they THINK you wanna hear…all in an effort to sell you the dream you’ve been shouting about. They know what to say – because they’ve seen you for weeks/months on end, talking about it.

Next thing you know, you’ve acquired a LEMON (even some PEOPLE can be lemons, too). You have no one to thank but yourself for acquiring this lemon, because you’ve let it be known that you want someone NOW. And you got what you wanted…SOMEONE!

My advice: live your life. The right person doesn’t need to HEAR/READ how lonely you are. They will see it when they look at the pics you’re taking with no mate in the pics standing next to you. No one wants to acquire someone with a ton of negative vibes, either – so radiate as much POSITIVITY as you possibly can! This will attract a positive situation. If you radiate negativity, then MISERY will bring you that kind of company…

BE what you want to acquire. Be human and be realistic about it. From there, the right person will come skipping along and take your hand. I know this from experience, as I’ve only dated two people from FB since I’ve had this account in like 2010. I don’t talk about dating on FB because most of the people I date aren’t on my FB page, to begin with (personal reasons, nothing bad). The people I date are people I meet – that are in the circle I frequent – and I know their lives to where I know where I would fit in.

Just live your life, and the right person will drop by unexpectedly :-) SHOW the world what you are made of, and that world will develop around you.

…that’s my advice for the week. Now, BACK TO BUSINESS!!!

;-)